What Do You Not Want?

Life Lesson #2 – What do you NOT want?

A few years ago, I used to have a really hard time answering the question: What do I really want?

When you are feeling overwhelmed with everything going on, you likely need some space to think before you can answer a question like that.

Or maybe you just can’t see all that is possible for you YET.

BUT I bet you know what you DON’T want!

I could definitely answer that question back then . . .

I did not want to work evenings and weekends.

I did not want to be worrying about work when I was at the kid’s swimming lessons.

I did not want to be in meetings all day long or that I thought were a waste of time.

I did not want to feel like I was barely keeping up.

I did not want to be yelling at my kids.

I did not want to be fighting with my husband.

I did not want to feel like crap most days and have no energy left in the evenings.

I did not want to settle for the status quo.

THE THING IS, what you want is on the other side of what you don’t want!

I did want to have a healthy balance between my work and personal life.

I did want to be present and enjoy the moment.

I did want more free space in my calendar to focus on important work and think.

I did want to contribute in a deep way with my team and organization.

I did want to be calm and connected with my kids.

I did want to have a strong relationship with my husband.

I did want to feel good.

I did want to make a change and figure it out.

This question still helps guide me today.

So if you have a hard time answering the question what do you really want, how about you try asking the question:

What do you NOT want?

The truth of what you really want lies there for you.

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All my best, 

Stacey

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Stacey L. Olson is a Certified Positive Psychology Coach and has 15 years of corporate experience. She works with leaders and professionals who want to create more balance, stress less, AND still perform at a high level. Stacey is the founder of the 'The Balanced Leader' coaching program and offers executive and leadership coaching, workshops, and speaking.